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Private Work

When something in your life is out of control — and no one knows

“I had the career, the family, the reputation—and a private life that didn’t match any of it. Porn, affairs, constant promises to stop that I kept breaking. I told myself it was under control because nothing had collapsed yet. Working with Christopher was different. He’s direct, he sees through the excuses, and he actually knows how to handle this at the level it exists. This wasn’t about talking—it was about getting it under control. And it did.”
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Lucas W., Founder & CEO

“I came in exhausted, constantly performing. Week by week, I came back online — not just as a leader, but as a human.”

Diego M., Actor & Speaker

“I used to think success meant performing 24/7. This container helped me drop the act. Now my work is deeper, my relationships real — I’m no longer acting, I’m finally living.”

Benjamin K., Exec Coach & Leadership Strategist

“I’ve done a lot of coaching. Nothing compares to this. Christopher blends spiritual guidance, nervous system work, and sharp intuition — calling you into real, sacred leadership.”

The Life You Built. And The One You’re Hiding.

You’ve built something real.
From the outside, it holds.
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You’re respected.
You produce.
You show up when it matters.
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And at the same time—
you’re living a second life.
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Porn that isn’t occasional.
Affairs you’ve justified.
Paying for sex.
Drugs.
Patterns you swore you were done with.
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Not once.
Not a phase.
A pattern.
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You manage it.
You compartmentalize.
You tell yourself it’s under control because nothing has fully collapsed.
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But something’s changing.
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You’re covering more.
Tracking more.
Thinking about it more than you want to admit.
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People may not know the details—
but they can feel something is off.
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Or you’ve already been caught.
And now you’re managing the fallout… while still not fully stopping.
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That’s the part that’s wearing you down.
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Because this isn’t who you are—
but it is what you’re doing.
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And holding both of those at the same time
is costing more than you’re saying out loud.

Who This Is For

This is for the man who:|
 
  • looks successful—and is
  • is carrying behavior he doesn’t talk about
  • has tried to stop and hasn’t
  • is managing risk, not solving the problem
  • knows this will cost him if it continues

If you’re still minimizing it—
this isn’t for you.

Why work with me?

18+ years in this work. At one point in my career, I had 24 letters after my last name. Today, I keep the ones that matter.
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Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW-S).
Certified Sex Addiction Therapist–Supervisor (CSAT-S).
Registered Yoga Teacher (RYT) - Kundalini Yoga Specialist
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I’ve worked with thousands of men, their partners, and their families— inside addiction, infidelity, trauma, and high-stakes breakdown.

I’m not your typical therapist.

I’m direct.

I will call you out.

I won’t let you hide behind intelligence, success, or excuses.

I’ve been in recovery since 2008. I’ve lived this.

Relapse.
Complex trauma.
Divorce.
Betrayal.
Loss.
Rebuilding.

I understand what it takes to keep a double life running— and what it actually takes to shut it down.

I’m also a leader and entrepreneur.

I understand pressure, access, and what’s at risk when this isn’t handled.

This work is not talk.

It’s not passive.

It’s structured, direct, and built to get results where other approaches haven’t.

Private.
Discreet.
Handled.

The Work

Simple.
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Private 1:1 Work
We get control back.
Stabilize what’s happening.
Remove the pattern.
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Small Group (if appropriate)
No isolation.
No hiding.
Accountability that works.
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Immersion (Retreat)
Full reset.
Environment, structure, depth.
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Most men start with private work.

Read Christopher's latest blog posts on Sex Addiction Recovery.

Schedule the Call

This doesn’t fix itself.
If you could stop, you would have.
You don’t have to hold it all alone. This container exists so you can stand where you actually are — without performance, collapse, or escape.
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